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Many people would like you to believe that lifestyle design is the route to nirvana – and that when you put the effort into creating your perfect lifestyle the sun will always shine, the birds will always sing and life will skip along happily and easily.
And whilst do a degree this is true (minus the exaggeration!) I’m afraid to say that having been on this journey for some time there are actually a number of potential downsides to lifestyle design too.
Yes, I hate to be the one to say it, but lifestyle design as we know it from books like The Four Hour Work Week isn’t necessarily for everyone. Of course, one of the benefits of the whole principle is the flexibility inherent in the concept so you can take the bits you want and leave the rest, but I thought it might be beneficial here to try and give a balanced view of the pros and cons of lifestyle design based on my own experiences thus far.
The Pros Of Lifestyle Design
Freedom
The biggest benefit of all when it comes to lifestyle design is simply the potential freedom that this process can grant you. Indeed I would hazard a guess based on emails I have had through this site, from forum posts and other blogs that freedom is really the biggest draw of all. Freedom to get up when you want. Freedom from a job that sucks the life out of you. Freedom to control what you do and when you do it. Freedom to do al those things you want to do but never have the time for.
Amazing Experiences
A knock-on of this freedom is the ability to have some truly amazing experiences. When you free up your time and no longer need to fit into a standard job with it’s controls over your time, your energy and your location you are immediately more free to go out and really experience all that life has to offer. Honestly ask yourself how many things you’d like to do, or would have liked to have done, over the last year but couldn’t thanks to “work commitments”.
Fascinating Conversations
What I have found is that most people caught on the treadmill we know as the rat race really have very little time for really living. So their conversations are taken up with topics such as the weather, what is happening at work at the moment and the new car they’re considering purchasing.
Ring up your friends from one week to the next and nothing has really happened. I lose count of the number of emails and phone calls I have had over the years from people who have absolutely no news – even if it is months since we last spoke – because most people really don’t have time for a life.
Lifestyle designers are by default different. They have the time and freedom to experience life and so you will discover a group of passionate people who are living a full and enjoyable life, where things happen and there is plenty of news. This makes for fascinating conversation and a more stimulating form of communication.
Being An Inspiration To Others
How many times have people said to you over the years “I’d love to do x but…”. Whether it’s writing a book, traveling the world, learning to play an instrument or to speak a new language. Maybe it’s getting into shape or even something as simple as painting the spare room.
Most people have things they’d like to do, but they never seem to get round to actually doing them. They don’t take the leap.
Those of us who are successful at our lifestyle design goals are, by our very nature, doers. To be successful at lifestyle design we have to go out there, grab life by the throat and make changes.
And when you start to really achieve things; when you start to make genuinely positive changes in your life; you’ll find that you can become an inspiration to others. A catalyst to show the way and prove that things *are* possible. You *can* make changes. You just need to apply yourself.
And it’s a great feeling to be the motivator that helps others to achieve those goals they’ve always aimed for but never dared to strive for.
Living A Fulfilling Life
The freedom to choose what you do and where you do it, to mix with interesting people and experience new things every day quite simply can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying life. A life where it doesn’t feel like life is running away from you while you just try to stay afloat. A life where you live consciously aiming to do all the things you want.
Having The Time For Things That Matter
What happens if you need time off work tomorrow because a family member is ill? What if your child has a play at school that clashes with a meeting at work? What if your favorite band are performing live near where you live but you know you have to be up at 6am the next day to get to the office in time? Likely the formality and control of a “normal” job will make these issues a real problem for you.
But they’re not an issue for lifestyle designers. They control their time and so can choose to spend it however they want. All of the above problems are simple for people who are financially independent. But not for those trapped in a corporate world.
And let’s be honest here for a moment, however unsavory the truth really is. When you get old what memories are you really likely to cherish the most – how you managed to get to work on time that Thursday or that amazing gig you attended with your friends? That you succeeded in getting a $2,000 raise thanks to your excellent attendance record at work, or that you were there by your loved-ones bedside to support them through their sickness? The choice is yours.
Increased Energy
This benefit of lifestyle design seems rarely to be mentioned yet for me was one of the biggest and yet most surprising aspects of giving up formal work. Quite simply a “normal” job requires a huge amount of effort both physically and mentally. It’s not unusual to get home from work totally zapped for energy.
The last thing you want to do is go out in the evening for dinner or to the gym. You just want to put your feet up. You just start to recover over the weekend before having to start the whole process all over again.
When you’ve been working fulltime for years you don’t realize just how much your job really takes out of you. Within a few weeks of quitting your job, of staying in bed till your body has had enough sleep rather than getting up because of your alarm, of spending your time doing things you’re passionate about and not constantly being on the go you will probably find your energy levels rising.
I found I was almost like a different person. More passionate. More patient. More willing to listen to others. Kinder, if you like, because I was no longer tired, stressed and in a hurry the whole time. Life just because easier and more enjoyable and I felt better equipped to enjoy it.
The Cons Of Lifestyle Design
Irregular Income
However boring your job is, the predictability that can make it so dull also has upsides. Generally there are no nasty surprises in store. Each day is much the same as any other. And of course at the end of each month you can look forward to a regular and predictable paycheck.
When you are working for yourself this isn’t always the case. Incomes can go down as well as up. Websites can drop out of the search engines. Affiliate programs can close. Adsense accounts get closed down and so on.
On the other hand incomes can go up considerably such as when your site finally hits the top spot in the search engines or when testing a new monetization strategy pays off.
However this means that budgeting can be a little more difficult and it pays to monitor your money a little more carefully and save a chunk from your better months to cover any nasty future surprises.
Greater Responsibility
In many jobs you simply need to turn up, do the bare minimum each day and then go home to relax at the end. It’s boring but typically once you walk out of your workplace your responsibilities end.
In lifestyle design you are taking responsibility for your own life. It is up to you when you work and how much money you earn. It is up to you to do your taxes and ensure you stay within the law. Certainly you can hire people to help you with all this (which I recommend) but just be aware that when you’re working for yourself you have far less fallback.
Loss Of Friends
I don’t want to suggest that those actively involved in lifestyle design are anti-social friendless individuals but more that as you develop personally so your group of close friends is likely to change.
If you currently work with some people you get on well with – even regard as friends – the fact is that as you spread your wings, quit your job and go out to experience life many of these friends will quite simply be “left behind”.
They will still be trapped in the rat race and probably won’t have the time or freedom to allow them to join you on your adventures whatever they may be. Once you’ve left the workplace you may well also find you have far less in common with them and far less to talk about.
In their place you will likely meet new friends who are involved in lifestyle design in their own way – whether they know it or not.
It is easy to be sad about slipping away from friends – and of course it isn’t inevitable – but you should also appreciate that lifestyle design allows you to really become your true self. The new friends you will meet along your journey will then probably be even better for you – and turn out to grow even closer to you – than your old friends who will probably still be doing what they are doing now in ten years time (whilst moaning about it!).
Self Discipline
Becoming active in lifestyle design requires self discipline and self motivation. You’re going to have to put the effort in now so that you can reap the results in the future. This can mean giving up short term gratification to achieve greater things long term.
But there is also another side which I have seen time and again. Once you have a successful lifestyle business which is easily covering your monthly expenses with minimal time and effort it can be easy to get complacent.
I have suffered from this problem as have many other people I know; that quite simply when you quit your job knowing that your expenses are covered with just a few hours work a week it can be easy to get lazy and comfortable. It doesn’t matter what you do so long as you pay your web hosting and domain fees – the money keeps rolling in.
Ideally this freedom provides opportunities to really experience life has to offer but it’s surprisingly easy to just get lazy instead.
Difficulties With Credit
Compare how difficult it will be to get a loan or mortgage when you have a sensible, reliable job with a stable company and again when you are self employed earning money from a small network of websites.
Generally it is going to be far easier to get credit in the first place so if you’re seriously considering anything in the near future that will require credit – such as buying a new house – then it pays to get this goal ticked off while you’re still employed rather than after you go fulltime working for yourself.
Any pros or cons of lifestyle design that you think I missed? If so, please leave me a comment as your opinions are important.